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Using good Situational
Awareness, you should be able to see and avoid a potentially difficult
situation. In most cases, you can simply stop, turn around and go the
other way or take a path around the trouble. Sometimes, though, try
as you might, trouble finds you.
At first, subtlety may be required. Fast or
big movements on your part might draw attention to you or could ignite
a smoldering situation. Running from an aggressive dog might cause him
to chase you, while moving away calmly may allow you to escape.
- Be aware and leave an area if trouble
seems to be brewing.
- Walk, don't run, if you only have a "feeling"
that things are not right.
- Cross the street; turn and walk the other
way; turn down another street, especially if there are non-threatening
people there (no, not a dark alley).
- If actual trouble becomes apparent, move
away from it quickly but calmly.
- If trouble starts after you, RUN AWAY.
- Cry for help to call attention to your
dilemma.
If you cannot move away from a potentially
troublesome predicament, you may need to attempt to de-escalate the
situation.
- An angry or aggressive person may just
want to be heard. While maintaining Condition
Red, calmly let the person vent his feelings.
- Listen and try to calm everyone down.
Do not take anyone's side, even the angry persons', unless you know
the situation. People will see through disingenuous words and this
will likely cause even more trouble.
- Never, ever argue with a drunk.
Reason goes into the bottle faster than the alcohol comes out of it.
Smile, nod, say "Yes" or "No."
- Be sure your body language matches your
words. Be alert to move if need be, but not aggressively postured.
Do not look like a rabbit ready to run or a wolf ready to pounce.
A variation of the basic Krav Maga fighting
stance can accomplish this.
- If you are in error about something, admit
it. Honesty is a better way to de-escalate than is lying or stubbornly
refusing to acknowledge wrong.
- Do not react to merely provocative words
or gestures. Ignore them and move on in the discussion.
- Do not insult or embarrass the other person
in any way, particularly in public. You don;t like it, neither will
an aggressive person
- Threats or aggressive and intimidating
actions may need to be acknowledged and even confronted. However,
be careful about being imperious or arrogant ("How dare you say/do
that?"), or returning a threat unless you can back it up successfully.
It may be better to ask the person to stop using that language or
making those gestures as a sign of mutual respect.
Review the Color Codes
- Do not walk around like a victim - head
down, shuffling, unaware, like you have blinders on. This is known
as Condition
White, a bad place to be.
- Move with head up, with perception and
subtle spirit, scanning casually around, aware of your circumstances.
You see who is near you; note the physical layout of the area; note
friends and questionable persons or known troublesome characters.
This is Condition
Yellow; you can stay here all the time.
- Analyze the demeanor and circumstances
of people. If they appear upset or aggressive, shifty or deceitful,
or if you are simply uncomfortable, move from Condition Yellow to
Condition
Orange.
- Subtly observe people who seem to be getting
caught up in a confrontation. Note any obvious leaders. Try to pick
up visual and aural cues as to what the trouble is. However, do not
become so fixated or tunnel-visioned on the obvious trouble that you
miss other things going on around you.
- If you feel you might become a person of
attention for any reason (age, race, gender, religious or ethnic affiliation
[i.e. wearing a yarmulke, burka, hajab or turban], political connection
[i.e. wearing politically identifiable buttons, clothes, colors]),
leave the area. Protest your "right" to be wherever you
wish to be without harassment later. Move to Condition
Red.
- If you are attacked, go to Condition
Black. You have not successfully avoided trouble, but you may
be able to get yourself and others out of it. Fight, run!
Stay alert - Stay alive!
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